Hi Lynn, ( @Wawrzyniak )
I understand your difficulty. I think that one of the ways in which churches can grow is if members invite their friends and family. And not just for one particular worship service but for any event or class. It can be a challenge to get everyone on board with this concept but it certainly can be worth it.
I hope that this helps.
-- Carol
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